I SAW MY MUM'S NAKEDNESS OFTEN AND THAT PLANTED THE SEED OF MASTURBATION IN ME;CONFESSION OF A YOUNG BOY-by Olusa Bamidele Emmanuel

The word of God says in Proverbs 22.6 thus ' ^'Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.'
Read the short article,parents play major roles in bringing up God fearing and moral children. 

Olusa Bamidele Emmanuel

I counseled a young guy who was addicted to masturbation. He told me he can't do without masturbating. One thing that struck me in his confession was when he said, 'my mum caused all this for me'. Curiosity got hold of me & I asked him, how? He said; he started masturbating since when he was 4 years old. ' my mum dresses up before me, I am used to seeing her nakedness. I am not moved to have sex with her but I always long to see mature ladies naked just the way I always see my mum dressing up naked before me. I still remember seeing her nakedness regularly till I was 8years& my dad do shout on her, 'send this boy out before you dress...' , but my mum would always reply by saying, 'will my son sleep with me? Stop planting evil thought in his heart'. Anytime I see my mum's naked body, I long to see ladies' naked body, I went into sex at age 10 and till now I am not free from sex& heavy pornography & masturbation...'
Dear parents, I hope you are not guilty of this? You are dressing up before your 2- year old son/daughter& you say he/she doesn't know anything yet? . Some couples will be having sex while their close to 2 years old child will be in their room with them & they will feel, he can only see, he can't understand. Sir/ma, that your child does not need to understand. Seeing your nakedness or seeing you and your spouse making love is enough to plant abnormal sexual fantasies and urge in that child. Remember, it is a jet world! How will you destroy your own children with your own carelessness? Don't let your children see your nakedness. Don't make love in the presence of your child no matter the age. The scene sticks to the memory& they may want to explore & experiment what they are seeing. Stopping making home-made 'sex clips or video' for your children to be watching. Mummy, sit properly. Stop sitting as if you are in the labour room; parting your legs for your son to see your inner tight& pant. Be careful! Daddy, don't wear ordinary boxer at home that you sit down & your 'thing' is dangling &your daughter is seeing it. There are things you should not wear beyond your bedroom, just for your spouse. Don't say because you want to enjoy your freedom in your house, you now put your children into sexual bondage. Mummy, wearing ordinary bra around the house in the presence of your sons is dangerous. Yes, they won't lust after you but you might be increasing their curiosity to see the breasts of ladies outside. Let's stop being 'phonographic materials' to our children. Raising sexually pure children, it begins at home' My Counsel.